LOVE IN FOCUS | WAYS TO CELEBRATE
- Dana Rohlfs
- Dec 20, 2024
- 4 min read
There are lots of things to consider when it comes down to a very big decision: to have a wedding or elope?.. or maybe something in between the two?
Here’s something important to keep in mind as you weigh the pros and cons: this moment is about YOU—and your partner, of course. In today’s world, there are endless ways to make your wedding day uniquely yours! If you’re feeling torn between hosting a big reception with all your friends and family or having a private,
intimate ceremony in a stunning location, why not consider a combination that gives you the best of both worlds? Here are a few ideas to inspire you!
Elope
For couples who want a deeply personal and intimate experience, an elopement can be magical. Exchange vows in a stunning location—like a mountain peak, secluded beach, or lush forest—with just the two of you (and your photographer!) present. You can always celebrate with friends and family later with a casual party or dinner.

Destination Wedding
Combine your wedding and honeymoon by choosing a beautiful destination to tie the knot. Whether it’s a tropical beach, charming European city, or the scenic mountains of Colorado, this option creates an unforgettable experience for you and a smaller, close-knit group of loved ones.

Split Ceremony and Reception
Host a small, private ceremony with close family and friends in a meaningful location, then plan a larger reception later to celebrate with your extended circle. This approach lets you focus on intimacy during the ceremony while still having the fun and excitement of a bigger party.
Adventure Wedding
If you and your partner are nature lovers, consider an adventure wedding! Say your vows while hiking, kayaking, or even skydiving. You can combine your wedding day with an unforgettable experience that reflects your love for the outdoors.
At-Home Celebration
Create a cozy, meaningful celebration by getting married in your backyard, family home, or another special place close to your heart. This option can be incredibly sentimental and allows for creative DIY touches.
Honeymoon Elopement
Plan an elopement as part of your honeymoon. Travel to your dream destination, exchange vows in a private ceremony, and immediately begin your honeymoon adventure together.

Why Eloping Might Be the Best Decision for Your Wedding Day
When you look back on your wedding day years from now, what do you want to remember? For many couples, the idea of an intimate, stress-free celebration that focuses on what truly matters—their love and commitment—feels far more meaningful than planning a large, traditional wedding.
If the thought of curating a 150-person guest list, managing a hefty budget for food, decorations, and a venue, or dealing with the inevitable stress of people-pleasing doesn’t excite you, an elopement could be the perfect solution. Weddings often come with external pressures and obligations, but eliminating those stressors can be one of the best decisions you and your partner make as you begin your marriage.
The Hard Questions to Ask Yourself
Do I want to spend thousands of dollars on a venue and catering for guests, or would I rather use that money to fund an unforgettable adventure?
Would it feel more special and memorable to combine our honeymoon and wedding ceremony into one unique experience?
When I look back at my wedding photos decades from now, will I still be enchanted by the memory of exchanging vows in the mountains, on the coast, or in another breathtaking location with just my partner?
Your Loved Ones Will Support You
It’s natural to worry about how loved ones will react to an elopement. But the people who truly care about you will support your decision, no matter what. And if they don’t? That’s all the more reason to focus on what makes you and your partner happy. Your wedding day is about your love and the start of your marriage—not about meeting everyone else’s expectations.
Why I’m Passionate About Elopements
As someone who has witnessed the magic of elopements firsthand, I can tell you there’s something truly special about sharing that intimate moment in a beautiful, meaningful place. Whether it’s exchanging vows in the mountains, on a windswept beach, or beneath a canopy of trees, elopements allow you to focus entirely on each other. The pressure melts away, leaving room for raw emotion, connection, and the kind of moments you’ll treasure forever.
And yes, I’ll be there to document it all—your photographer, your cheerleader, and your witness to the magic. I’m especially passionate about elopements because I’ve seen how transformative and freeing they can be for couples. And personally? I’m so excited to experience it for myself when I elope next year.
Trust Your Heart
At the end of the day, only you can decide what’s right for you. Whether you opt for a big celebration or an intimate elopement, make a choice that feels true to your love story. I hope this gave you some insight and inspiration as you consider what’s best for your special day.
No matter what you choose, I know it’ll be beautiful and uniquely you.
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